Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Strongly agree with 2 and 4Summary:
1. Be in charge so she can turn her mind off.
2. Have future plans/goal.
3. Control her drama with zen attitude.
4. Control your penis.
5. Bring out her best side, not her toxic side.
6. Initiate giving her positive attention instead of waiting for her to whine about the lack of attention.
7. Know what you want and show clear intentions in that what she likes.
8. Don't be afraid to map out the future for her.
Very interesting. Which were your "before" then "after" behaviour and outcomes in the two different scenarios?5 is true, and so is 3.
I misunderstood manliness to be winning arguments whereas the truth is you avoid arguments - except when boundaries are crossed in which case you enforce them rigorously.
5 is so true. Since I pulled my finger out and started living better, my wife has suddenly started doing the housework more and moreover - respecting me.
I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time1. Be in charge so she can turn her mind off.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Hilarious and true at the same time!I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time![]()