"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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8 MAJOR Green Flags in Guys

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We need to translate this video in sosuave language, because to me, it's seems 100% Bluepill
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Summary:

1. Be in charge so she can turn her mind off.
2. Have future plans/goal.
3. Control her drama with zen attitude.
4. Control your penis.
5. Bring out her best side, not her toxic side.
6. Initiate giving her positive attention instead of waiting for her to whine about the lack of attention.
7. Know what you want and show clear intentions in that what she likes.
8. Don't be afraid to map out the future for her.
Strongly agree with 2 and 4

1, 3, 5, 6, and 8 is laziness/entitlement

7 is potentially putting her unnecessarily in control of you. If she wants to get to know you, let it take time.
 

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It's always the mans responsibility for how she acts/feels....that's the common theme here. Lol. No thanks

It's pointless to listen to this stuff. It's for women to digest, not men. Knowing these things won't improve your chances with women.
 

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5 is true, and so is 3.

I misunderstood manliness to be winning arguments whereas the truth is you avoid arguments - except when boundaries are crossed in which case you enforce them rigorously.

5 is so true. Since I pulled my finger out and started living better, my wife has suddenly started doing the housework more and moreover - respecting me.
Very interesting. Which were your "before" then "after" behaviour and outcomes in the two different scenarios?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They forgot the one about listening to Joe Rogan. His pods w/Joey Diaz saved me from absolute boredom and clawing my eyes out during some night shifts, while simultaneously meeting wicket points 2, 3, and 4.
 

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I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time :D
Hilarious and true at the same time!
By the way,I had this moment where I was staying with this women alone, doing some crap office work.
The first women told me "You made me relax".
The second women told me "My blood pressure is goind down". (I thought She was going crazy, So i took a chair for her).

Is this related to the "powering off" feature women have?
 
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