"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
8 MAJOR Green Flags in Guys
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Strongly agree with 2 and 4
1, 3, 5, 6, and 8 is laziness/entitlement
7 is potentially putting her unnecessarily in control of you. If she wants to get to know you, let it take time.
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It's always the mans responsibility for how she acts/feels....that's the common theme here. Lol. No thanks
It's pointless to listen to this stuff. It's for women to digest, not men. Knowing these things won't improve your chances with women.
It's pointless to listen to this stuff. It's for women to digest, not men. Knowing these things won't improve your chances with women.
jhonny9546
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Very interesting. Which were your "before" then "after" behaviour and outcomes in the two different scenarios?
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I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They forgot the one about listening to Joe Rogan. His pods w/Joey Diaz saved me from absolute boredom and clawing my eyes out during some night shifts, while simultaneously meeting wicket points 2, 3, and 4.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hilarious and true at the same time!I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time
By the way,I had this moment where I was staying with this women alone, doing some crap office work.
The first women told me "You made me relax".
The second women told me "My blood pressure is goind down". (I thought She was going crazy, So i took a chair for her).
Is this related to the "powering off" feature women have?