"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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8 MAJOR Green Flags in Guys

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We need to translate this video in sosuave language, because to me, it's seems 100% Bluepill
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Summary:

1. Be in charge so she can turn her mind off.
2. Have future plans/goal.
3. Control her drama with zen attitude.
4. Control your penis.
5. Bring out her best side, not her toxic side.
6. Initiate giving her positive attention instead of waiting for her to whine about the lack of attention.
7. Know what you want and show clear intentions in that what she likes.
8. Don't be afraid to map out the future for her.
Strongly agree with 2 and 4

1, 3, 5, 6, and 8 is laziness/entitlement

7 is potentially putting her unnecessarily in control of you. If she wants to get to know you, let it take time.
 

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It's always the mans responsibility for how she acts/feels....that's the common theme here. Lol. No thanks

It's pointless to listen to this stuff. It's for women to digest, not men. Knowing these things won't improve your chances with women.
 

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5 is true, and so is 3.

I misunderstood manliness to be winning arguments whereas the truth is you avoid arguments - except when boundaries are crossed in which case you enforce them rigorously.

5 is so true. Since I pulled my finger out and started living better, my wife has suddenly started doing the housework more and moreover - respecting me.
Very interesting. Which were your "before" then "after" behaviour and outcomes in the two different scenarios?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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They forgot the one about listening to Joe Rogan. His pods w/Joey Diaz saved me from absolute boredom and clawing my eyes out during some night shifts, while simultaneously meeting wicket points 2, 3, and 4.
 

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I must be doing something right as I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't have her brain turned off most of the time :D
Hilarious and true at the same time!
By the way,I had this moment where I was staying with this women alone, doing some crap office work.
The first women told me "You made me relax".
The second women told me "My blood pressure is goind down". (I thought She was going crazy, So i took a chair for her).

Is this related to the "powering off" feature women have?
 
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