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Sending her texts is being an orbiter. Women send texts to men, not vice versa. Men make things happen - that means creating an environment for sex to happen.
I spent 60 on a first date from old and people thought I was nuts.
I’m sorry Eye, I don’t believe you, I know you don’t care but I don’t. The only way this is working is if you are like top 5% in looks, look like you ballin’ or both. I believe if this is your strategy you get just as many flakes as girls who show up.
As I’ve said countless times, preventing flakes is not the goal. Dating is screening. I’m definitely not in top 5% in looks, and I definitely get a ton of flakes.
I’ve worked in sales and you keep pushing forward but you always think about what you could’ve done different to close the big sale you missed. Try it my way for a while and I bet your numbers go up.
Of course game is constant refinement. The key difference is I’m screening the girl just as hard or harder than she’s screening me. If she’s going to require daily check-ins, I’ll pass. Those habits only get worse over time.
I do agree with all of the people saying $100+ on a regular date with a girl you ain't fvcking yet is crazy. But I am of course not in the position to be spending that much on hanging out just one day so perhaps that date suggestion is for well off guys.Step five: She has to have fun on the date.
I am the king of dates. My dates are fun because I make sure I have fun. Few examples:
The Baltimore Orioles suck, $100 gets two great seats. Every chick I’ve taken to a baseball game first date has loved it. Orioles game + two hot dogs and a few drinks at a bar after about $130 bucks. Do not miss the opportunity to joke about how much of the hot dog she puts in her mouth
See above about planting seeds.
Amusement park, take her to six flags. Get on all the rides, eat cotton candy and skip around like two kids with no worries.
You on a budget? Bar with a pool table. “Teach her how to play pool” see above about the subtle kino. if she knows how already it’s fun for both of you.
Bowling & miniature golf works too.
I like your style bro. I had a similar idea a while back but with a different goal in mind (I wanted to think of things to ask about that would keep things interesting for us both, sex questions that aren't too forward are one good way to do that). Some of these questions are quite clever!
You now have my undivided attention. How did he do it?
So if he was broke and unemployed it would not work for him? It still goes to LMS so this is not news. Game comes if you have enough looks to get the foot in the door but are weak on money and status.
That’s what I’m saying to myself too. Like, there are no set rules in the game. Just propensities. But nothing is ever cut and dry like that because there are essentially an unlimited number of variables to consider, and even after that sometimes a chick will just say no just because. These ‘rules’ that we talk about are just for noobies when they first get here, but the reality is that social dynamics are much more complex and intricate. The whole ‘if she sleeps with you on the first date, she is a hoe’ mentality is immature and quite frankly, ignorant. Almost everything falls within a grey area of sorts. That’s why just BEING is better than planning and articulating each individual step.
Unless low hanging fruit, more game is required.
