"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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6'4...170...need weight?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ChrizZ

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looks ok, for how long have u been working out?
I´m 6´1 ... 180 and I think I´m still too skinny. I think if you see yourself in a mirror everyday you can´t really see the difference.
 

KillaCam

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You're lookin' pretty defined, better than most at least.

If you want to bulk up more, go for it. Whatever you feel comfortable with.
 

Warboss Alex

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go and eat something.

(that would be a YES.. but then again I always think big and lean is better than small and lean - whatever makes you happy bro, does our opinion matter?)
 

Adone

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At 6'4 and cut, you look very good like this. Anyway, gaining 20 lbs won't hurt, as long as you keep a low bodyfat.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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donjuanjovi

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You couldn't put down the toothbrush for 3 seconds to take a picture?

Do you want to look bigger. Sure you're a skinny guy but unless you want to be bigger there's no need to gain any weight. Although 170 is really tiny, especially for 6'4".

ChrizZ, I'm 5'11" and 215 and I still think I could be bigger. For some reason no matter how big you get you're always going to want to be bigger and stronger.
 

oakraiderz2

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I would like to be around 205, but i find it hard to eat all the time due to school and work. Ive been lifting off and on for a few years, something would always happen causing me to stop. Ive been consistent since mid august.
 

Carlos Xuma

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Dude, you're a twig. Don't stand in the wind, you may get blown over.

If you cant afford food they have homeless shelters.

You're the empidemy of the "starving kids" commmercials. EAT!
 

BluEyes

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You're good to go man...Don't forget that most of the advice here is from bodyBUILDERS who always suggest getting bigger.

My advice: work on your shoulders, they're abit small. Sure gain afew pounds on the squat rack but in all honesty you're fine.

and p.s. ditch the farmers tan, not cool
 

oakraiderz2

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Carlos Xuma said:
Dude, you're a twig. Don't stand in the wind, you may get blown over.

If you cant afford food they have homeless shelters.

You're the empidemy of the "starving kids" commmercials. EAT!
Hmm...interesting...hostility...nice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Throttle

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oakraiderz2 said:
Hmm...interesting...hostility...nice.
he's clearly a trouble maker...ignore. (but I sense you already have)
 

jbbrain

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I have to admit, as much as I'd like to critique your body, I'm actually much more concerned with the shape of your middle finger

lol!

WTF is up with that?!?!?1
 
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