"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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6'4...170...need weight?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ChrizZ

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looks ok, for how long have u been working out?
I´m 6´1 ... 180 and I think I´m still too skinny. I think if you see yourself in a mirror everyday you can´t really see the difference.
 

KillaCam

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You're lookin' pretty defined, better than most at least.

If you want to bulk up more, go for it. Whatever you feel comfortable with.
 

Warboss Alex

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go and eat something.

(that would be a YES.. but then again I always think big and lean is better than small and lean - whatever makes you happy bro, does our opinion matter?)
 

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At 6'4 and cut, you look very good like this. Anyway, gaining 20 lbs won't hurt, as long as you keep a low bodyfat.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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donjuanjovi

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You couldn't put down the toothbrush for 3 seconds to take a picture?

Do you want to look bigger. Sure you're a skinny guy but unless you want to be bigger there's no need to gain any weight. Although 170 is really tiny, especially for 6'4".

ChrizZ, I'm 5'11" and 215 and I still think I could be bigger. For some reason no matter how big you get you're always going to want to be bigger and stronger.
 

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I would like to be around 205, but i find it hard to eat all the time due to school and work. Ive been lifting off and on for a few years, something would always happen causing me to stop. Ive been consistent since mid august.
 

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Dude, you're a twig. Don't stand in the wind, you may get blown over.

If you cant afford food they have homeless shelters.

You're the empidemy of the "starving kids" commmercials. EAT!
 

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You're good to go man...Don't forget that most of the advice here is from bodyBUILDERS who always suggest getting bigger.

My advice: work on your shoulders, they're abit small. Sure gain afew pounds on the squat rack but in all honesty you're fine.

and p.s. ditch the farmers tan, not cool
 

oakraiderz2

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Carlos Xuma said:
Dude, you're a twig. Don't stand in the wind, you may get blown over.

If you cant afford food they have homeless shelters.

You're the empidemy of the "starving kids" commmercials. EAT!
Hmm...interesting...hostility...nice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Hmm...interesting...hostility...nice.
he's clearly a trouble maker...ignore. (but I sense you already have)
 

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I have to admit, as much as I'd like to critique your body, I'm actually much more concerned with the shape of your middle finger

lol!

WTF is up with that?!?!?1
 
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