"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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6 pack i dunt get it

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wait so even if you work out alot on yer abs dey wont show? it deends on the % of body fat. so all i have to do is have a low body fat and they just appear?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Water, drink lots of it ;). Make it your staple beverage, and, it will burn fat away while you are working out.
 

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for most people they won't show unless you have low bodyfat and you developed them through training
 

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i guess im the lucky one, i dont work them at all and i got a good fat showing 6 pack, and i do 0 situps a day.
 

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its quite simple and its a 2 pronged effort.

To have good, visible abs you must meet 2 criteria.

1. Have strong and well developed abdominals (you do this by working them out ;) )

2. Have a low bodyfat, so they are actually visible.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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like jb said

to get stronger/bigger/more developed abs you need to work them like every other muscle group. you can train abs 2 times a week. a basic workout would involve 3 sets weighted crunches, 3 sets weighted leg raises
 

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It's true lower your bodyfat by working out and watching what you eat (well not overeating anyway - i'm not on a diet) and you can start to see it. I am starting to notice this with myself and i'm just under 14%. :)
 

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Originally posted by dawg89
wait so even if you work out alot on yer abs dey wont show? it deends on the % of body fat. so all i have to do is have a low body fat and they just appear?
If you'll read the many threads (and websites out there) regarding this very question, I am confident you will find the answer very easily.
 
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