"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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6 Dates, No Sex - Should I be worried?

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Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nismo-4 said:
Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
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Read above: I have three other plates. I have other girls.

Goal is to seal the deal with this one. Feels like saying 'lost cause' is the easy way out. What do you learn?

What do you mean by 'too much negotiation' by the way?

I am still freezing her out. She sent the last message 2 days ago.
 
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I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
 
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HedoRick said:
I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
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LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
 
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Better you than me! New Years is coming up, go out and meet some drunk chicks.:up:

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LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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