"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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6 Dates, No Sex - Should I be worried?

nismo-4

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Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nismo-4 said:
Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
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Read above: I have three other plates. I have other girls.

Goal is to seal the deal with this one. Feels like saying 'lost cause' is the easy way out. What do you learn?

What do you mean by 'too much negotiation' by the way?

I am still freezing her out. She sent the last message 2 days ago.
 
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I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
 
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HedoRick said:
I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
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LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
 
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Better you than me! New Years is coming up, go out and meet some drunk chicks.:up:

CaConfused said:
LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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