"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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6 Dates, No Sex - Should I be worried?

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Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nismo-4 said:
Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
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Read above: I have three other plates. I have other girls.

Goal is to seal the deal with this one. Feels like saying 'lost cause' is the easy way out. What do you learn?

What do you mean by 'too much negotiation' by the way?

I am still freezing her out. She sent the last message 2 days ago.
 
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I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
 
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HedoRick said:
I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
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LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
 
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Better you than me! New Years is coming up, go out and meet some drunk chicks.:up:

CaConfused said:
LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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