"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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6 Dates, No Sex - Should I be worried?

nismo-4

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Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaConfused

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nismo-4 said:
Oh my god, you are chasing her, and your princess is in another castle! Mixed signals are negative signals. Drop her ass now. You ain't doing yourself any favors. She has you in the friendzone basement. For this board's sake, go ghost. She's making you wait too long. Too much negotiation. She has the frame and is not interested. Judge nismo knows this. So get another girl.

In short: She has low interest and you care too much. It's a lost course.

Case closed.
Read above: I have three other plates. I have other girls.

Goal is to seal the deal with this one. Feels like saying 'lost cause' is the easy way out. What do you learn?

What do you mean by 'too much negotiation' by the way?

I am still freezing her out. She sent the last message 2 days ago.
 

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I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
 

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HedoRick said:
I was played by one of these types not too long ago. That girl was the catalyst that turned me into the heartless, hedonistic Rick that I am today.

Do yourself a favor, if a girl doesn't put out after three dates, drop her quickly. Spin lots of plates. Some comply, some don't, so give yourself options.
LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
 

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Better you than me! New Years is coming up, go out and meet some drunk chicks.:up:

CaConfused said:
LOL - Yeah, check out my 2nd plate who just changed our date. All of my plates are being a pain in the ass.

I'm on day 2.5 of freezing out the girl you're referring to. She just randomly liked some of my Facebook posts, LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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