"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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50 Shades of Boredom...

Scaramouche

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Dear All,
Got press ganged into seeing the Movie...Well if you thought the Book was tedious....go and see the Movie...Rather like having a Hip transplant without anaesthetic...But the Cinema was chock a block with Young women and they loved it...I suppose it is good for a laugh!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Die Hard

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Lol.

A showing of this movie could prove to be a fruitful hunting ground. Go in there and run some "bad boy" game on all those young girls in the audience...
 

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I enjoyed the film.
 

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The movie got pretty sh*tty reviews, otherwise I'd have no problem watching it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dear Yewkie and Others,
The movie is really pretty tame stuff,the interesting thing is the Audience,mostly young Women...In The Movie House that I saw it at,there is a Bar as you move out...many of these Girls congregated there,I think you could do a bit of good for yourself by chatting to them,in the Cinema itself sit at the back,then when your eyes are accustomed to the dark,look for Girls sitting on their own,move down and sit between them and the exit aisle,as the movie finishes get in their way and while holding them up just say something then give them right of way at the end of the row and chat as they move out,invite her for a drink at the Bar....I suppose it is creepy but it will often work.
 
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