"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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5 years since vasectomy, ask me anything

DariusTheBartender

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Ok I'm not on here daily so forgive my replies if delayed but amongst my friends in person I hear a lot of misinformation or just curiosity about getting snipped. So I'd like to help guys here! Ask away!!!

Background: no kids, never married, at mid 30s decided kids weren't for me (I did freeze a few soldiers just in case for about $800 and renew that for $300 annually). No regrets, generally try to use condoms but worry less which is absolutely stupid on my part as the STD thing is still just as likely.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DariusTheBartender

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mrgoodstuff said:
Ejaculate power, consistency, coloring and amount unchanged?

What about testosterone levels?
Balls sizes unchanged?
Pain?
Healing time?
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Semen exactly the same, feels the same when orgasming, testosterone, balls size same.

Pain: operation itself not too bad, felt like a couple of rubber bands snapping the balls... much less painful than 18 years of child support. Afterwards balls sore for 2 weeks, sometimes getting up or walking hurt to a medium degree.

Healing time: 2 weeks. Masturbated pretty early on, whatever the earliest was? 2nd or 3rd day I dont remember. Sex that month.

REMEMBER YOU MUST USE CONDOMS AFTER SEX UNTIL DOCTOR VERIFIES NO SWIMMERS. TAKES A FEW MONTHS SOMETIMES.
 
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I had one done in 2015 and no regrets. I didn't even freeze any because I made the decision if I decided to have kids it would be more noble to adopt than to hire a surrogate. That was fine for me and not knocking those who go by the surrogate route.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No change in any of that. I did have some mental issues. I don’t like it. Testosterone is around 700 to 900 depending on the test and what’s going on in my life.
 
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