"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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5 years since vasectomy, ask me anything

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Ok I'm not on here daily so forgive my replies if delayed but amongst my friends in person I hear a lot of misinformation or just curiosity about getting snipped. So I'd like to help guys here! Ask away!!!

Background: no kids, never married, at mid 30s decided kids weren't for me (I did freeze a few soldiers just in case for about $800 and renew that for $300 annually). No regrets, generally try to use condoms but worry less which is absolutely stupid on my part as the STD thing is still just as likely.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ejaculate power, consistency, coloring and amount unchanged?

What about testosterone levels?
Balls sizes unchanged?
Pain?
Healing time?
Semen exactly the same, feels the same when orgasming, testosterone, balls size same.

Pain: operation itself not too bad, felt like a couple of rubber bands snapping the balls... much less painful than 18 years of child support. Afterwards balls sore for 2 weeks, sometimes getting up or walking hurt to a medium degree.

Healing time: 2 weeks. Masturbated pretty early on, whatever the earliest was? 2nd or 3rd day I dont remember. Sex that month.

REMEMBER YOU MUST USE CONDOMS AFTER SEX UNTIL DOCTOR VERIFIES NO SWIMMERS. TAKES A FEW MONTHS SOMETIMES.
 

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I had one done in 2015 and no regrets. I didn't even freeze any because I made the decision if I decided to have kids it would be more noble to adopt than to hire a surrogate. That was fine for me and not knocking those who go by the surrogate route.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epic Days

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No change in any of that. I did have some mental issues. I don’t like it. Testosterone is around 700 to 900 depending on the test and what’s going on in my life.
 
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