"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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5 years since vasectomy, ask me anything

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Ok I'm not on here daily so forgive my replies if delayed but amongst my friends in person I hear a lot of misinformation or just curiosity about getting snipped. So I'd like to help guys here! Ask away!!!

Background: no kids, never married, at mid 30s decided kids weren't for me (I did freeze a few soldiers just in case for about $800 and renew that for $300 annually). No regrets, generally try to use condoms but worry less which is absolutely stupid on my part as the STD thing is still just as likely.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ejaculate power, consistency, coloring and amount unchanged?

What about testosterone levels?
Balls sizes unchanged?
Pain?
Healing time?
Semen exactly the same, feels the same when orgasming, testosterone, balls size same.

Pain: operation itself not too bad, felt like a couple of rubber bands snapping the balls... much less painful than 18 years of child support. Afterwards balls sore for 2 weeks, sometimes getting up or walking hurt to a medium degree.

Healing time: 2 weeks. Masturbated pretty early on, whatever the earliest was? 2nd or 3rd day I dont remember. Sex that month.

REMEMBER YOU MUST USE CONDOMS AFTER SEX UNTIL DOCTOR VERIFIES NO SWIMMERS. TAKES A FEW MONTHS SOMETIMES.
 

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I had one done in 2015 and no regrets. I didn't even freeze any because I made the decision if I decided to have kids it would be more noble to adopt than to hire a surrogate. That was fine for me and not knocking those who go by the surrogate route.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Epic Days

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No change in any of that. I did have some mental issues. I don’t like it. Testosterone is around 700 to 900 depending on the test and what’s going on in my life.
 
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