"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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5 inch on chest in 5 months?

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because of my small frame i find it extremely hard to find clothing that fit me...i have a 35 chest and 28 waist, 5'8 tall.

only zara, hugo boss and several other brands have my size, and most stuff online are either medium or large. when i walk down the street i look like a 15 year old, even though 5'8 is not that short.

i have started working out, hoping to fit into a size medium, just asking for general opinion, is a 5-6 inch chest gain possible in 4-5 months? without steroids?

tell me it can be done and give me extra motivation
or should i aim for something more realistic and resetting my goals?

i am eating 2x body weight protein and using alex's model
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skilla_Staz

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Possible? Yes. Probable? No.

I'd aim for something a little more realistic. By Feb (5 months from when I started) I hope to have gained about 2 or 3 inches around my chest from the starting measurement of 37. Now, if you hit the lats, chest, back and such with equal aggression, then your measurements will increase. However, 5 inches is a lot to look for in 5 months my friend.
 

Warboss Alex

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maybe in a year.. don't sweat it bro. eat hard, lift hard and you'll get there. don't think in terms of how long it'll take. it'll happen! just be patient.
 

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recalibrate your expectations (to avoid discouragement and falling off the wagon) but recognize that in 2-3 years you can do even better than that. this is a very long term game... keep your calories up.
 
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