"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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5 inch on chest in 5 months?

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because of my small frame i find it extremely hard to find clothing that fit me...i have a 35 chest and 28 waist, 5'8 tall.

only zara, hugo boss and several other brands have my size, and most stuff online are either medium or large. when i walk down the street i look like a 15 year old, even though 5'8 is not that short.

i have started working out, hoping to fit into a size medium, just asking for general opinion, is a 5-6 inch chest gain possible in 4-5 months? without steroids?

tell me it can be done and give me extra motivation
or should i aim for something more realistic and resetting my goals?

i am eating 2x body weight protein and using alex's model
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skilla_Staz

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Possible? Yes. Probable? No.

I'd aim for something a little more realistic. By Feb (5 months from when I started) I hope to have gained about 2 or 3 inches around my chest from the starting measurement of 37. Now, if you hit the lats, chest, back and such with equal aggression, then your measurements will increase. However, 5 inches is a lot to look for in 5 months my friend.
 

Warboss Alex

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maybe in a year.. don't sweat it bro. eat hard, lift hard and you'll get there. don't think in terms of how long it'll take. it'll happen! just be patient.
 

Throttle

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recalibrate your expectations (to avoid discouragement and falling off the wagon) but recognize that in 2-3 years you can do even better than that. this is a very long term game... keep your calories up.
 
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