"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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4th annual Anti AA Competition

Gray The Prince

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Yes gentlemen, it's that time of the year again! The fourth annual Anti Approach Anxiety Competition!


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182041

2011 competition^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190530

2012 competition^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202218

2013 competition^



Previous winners

2011- Four way Tie between Myself, Robyn, PrettyboyAJ and Deicide

2012- Roman81

2013- CoachD


Hello all, those of you who have been for at least a year, know about the Anti Approach Anxiety competition held every February. This was started back when I was a rookie DJ my freshman year in college 3 years ago by AAAgent. From the 2nd annual contest onward, I have taken over the organization of the competition with lots of help from Robyn and various others.





Like every other year, the same rules apply:


1.) Veterans and past winners are allowed to participate but are ineligible to win. Self-explanatory rule and we all know who you are. However, if you want to post tips, encouragement, etc. PLEASE do so.

2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each task/objective. For example if the task starts on Monday then you must post by Sunday 11:59pm Pacific Time or you are eliminated.

3.) Encouragement and tips are highly encouraged as a means to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.

4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.

5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. Even though we have no way of knowing whether or not you are lying, just be a man and accept defeat. Failure is evident on the path to success.

6.) You are to get a phone number if the tasks call you to do so. E-Mail, Facebook, things that aren't phone numbers DO NOT count.
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We will do a two strikes rule. If you fail to meet an objective twice, you are eliminated from the competition no ifs ans or buts. As each round progresses, the tasks will become more and more difficult.


Any questions, comments or concerns, please PM me or post them in this thread. Good luck to you all.


Also if any past winners or veterans want to help with the competition feel free to PM me.




Edit- I forgot to mention! If you want to sign up, then comment in the thread. You have until February 16 to do so.




Participants


LeonSK
Lotus Effect
MartinARMT
Peaks&Valleys*
Titan'Eyez*
Maximus Rex*
Mr. Wright*



*= Ineligible to win.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sign me up!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Peaks&Valleys

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I'm in.
 

Maximus Rex

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Rex is Considering

I saw this thread last, and I was considering effin' with but now I see that PnV is down, I might have to eff with simply to show y'all that chicks still answer the phone.
 

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Go on then, any old excuse to approach.

Is there a hot girl of the day challenge?
 

Gray The Prince

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Now y'all know veterans ain't sposed to enter. However it would be a unique twist for this year's competition.

All right, y'all can jump in and compete, but none of yall are eligible to become champion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Maximus Rex said:
I saw this thread last, and I was considering effin' with but now I see that PnV is down, I might have to eff with simply to show y'all that chicks still answer the phone.
Bring it!

OP, I shouldn't be ineligible. I wasn't on here for the last one. Plus, this is my biggest weakness, day game approaches. I was flirting with some cute cashier at the grocery store the other day and getting the googly eyes, and I didn't go for the close! That one still hurts..... :kick:

I need this man!!!
 
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E_Sex

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I'm in, I haven't even posted in forever. This'll get me back in my groove.
 

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This was the best thing I did last year when I first signed up. Helped a ton. All new guys should try to do it. It's like boot camp.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gray The Prince

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As of 2/11/2014 at 9:20 pm CST

Participants

LeonSK
Lotus Effect
MartinARMT
Peaks&Valleys*
Tyte'Eyez*
Maximus Rex*
Mr. Wright*
E Sex
House


*= Ineligible to win.
 

-Gripz-

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Ah,What the hell. I'm in.
 

TheMusic

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I usually quit in the first week. Let's do things differently now!
 

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Gray The Prince said:
As of 2/11/2014 at 9:20 pm CST

Participants

LeonSK
Lotus Effect
MartinARMT
Peaks&Valleys*
Tyte'Eyez*
Maximus Rex*
Mr. Wright*
E Sex
House
Clean Pleb

*= Ineligible to win.
Fixed that for ya
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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