49 year old cougar HB9 invited me on day trip with her friends to Tampa!

[nicksaiz65]

Case in point, you are her new gay bff. And no, she doesn't see you as anything for her daughter. They are probably having a good laugh right now. Get your head in the game dude. Say thanks, but no thanks and stop going after the geriatric granny squad.

You know... I actually learn a ton from the BigDave, BigGoal, and RichardTheFrog threads.

They show you exactly what NOT to do lol. Another reminder that the phone is for making plans/dates

 

[RickTheToad]

You know... I actually learn a ton from the BigDave, BigGoal, and RichardTheFrog threads.

They show you exactly what NOT to do lol. Another reminder that the phone is for making plans/dates

I swear, it's like watching a train wreck over and over again.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I swear, it's like watching a train wreck over and over again.

I love it. I'm entertained and I'm learning. I learned a ton about inner game and texting from the BigGoal/BigDave threads

 

[biggoal]

You know... I actually learn a ton from the BigDave, BigGoal, and RichardTheFrog threads.

They show you exactly what NOT to do lol. Another reminder that the phone is for making plans/dates

What's wrong with texting?

 

[RickTheToad]

I love it. I'm entertained and I'm learning. I learned a ton about inner game and texting from the BigGoal/BigDave threads

Yea, how to dry their p ussy and not get laid from these two knuckleheads. Sigh....

Pro-tip, if they are already talking/texting you, chances are, they've already envisioned f ucking you. It's usually the dudes talk or text themselves out of sex. So yea, if a person is intent of becoming a monk, staying celibate, these are the two to follow to the T.

 

[biggoal]

Yea, how to dry their p ussy and not get laid from these two knuckleheads. Sigh....

Pro-tip, if they are already talking/texting you, chances are, they've already envisioned f ucking you. It's usually the dudes talk or text themselves out of sex. So yea, if a person is intent of becoming a monk, staying celibate, these are the two to follow to the T.

So you're saying I need to find a way to close the deal and watch what I say when texting with them so I don't screw it up?

 

[nicksaiz65]

What's wrong with texting?

Buy the book "Game" by Roosh V. It's like $13 on his website.

Read Chapter 7.

Hell, the whole book is definitely worth a read honestly. That book helped me a ton.

The point of texting is to set up a date.

Or just watch this:

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yea, how to dry their p ussy and not get laid from these two knuckleheads. Sigh....

Pro-tip, if they are already talking/texting you, chances are, they've already envisioned f ucking you. It's usually the dudes talk or text themselves out of sex. So yea, if a person is intent of becoming a monk, staying celibate, these are the two to follow to the T.

I agree with you on the texting part for sure

 

[RickTheToad]

I agree with you on the texting part for sure

Following Biggoal and Bigdave was a joke...

 

[nicksaiz65]

Following Biggoal and Bigdave was a joke...

Oh I know haha

 

[corrector]

Museums have allot of information. The trip should be an educational experience and teach you about past civilizations. Make sure you ask lots of questions to staff and learn all you can. I have not visited a museum in about 10 years. Have you visited a museum with another girl before? Maybe you can hit on the staff if there is a good hb working therr and use the 49 year old cougar as social proof. You can claim she is your sugar momma but you want to keep your options open.

 

[corrector]

Biggoal, do you look at mature/old women porn? Are you fetish attracted to older women because of porn? You said something like you fapped or watched porn in another thread elsewhere.

 

[biggoal]

Biggoal, do you look at mature/old women porn? Are you fetish attracted to older women because of porn? You said something like you fapped or watched porn in another thread elsewhere.

No lol. Just regular porn on porn hub once in awhile like everyone else. I like the casting couch ones or Mom POV has 40 year olds, but nothing older than that. Tushy.com has some good videos too!

 

[Poonani Maker]

Buy the book "Game" by Roosh V. It's like $13 on his website.

Damn, I paid $29 for it, I like to feel the pages of a book cause I went to speedreading classes in 9th grade. Also, I wanted to donate to Roosh. It's not often that I donate to really much of anything, but when I see a cause I'm up for, I'll part with a half an hour worth of my work/time.

 

[biggoal]

Is it me or just OLD just plain suck this time of year compared to summer, early fall? Since early Nov hardly any new users, overall lower quality (if it's possible) and overall lower reply rates, dates etc.

Over the summer it was quite easy to get on OLD and get replies, and snag numbers. Even the total garbage site OkCupid there were a few halfway decent ones on there and easy to snag a number. I guess in summer the teachers are out of school and bored for example. I went on some dates with teachers in the summer. Easy to chat them up. Now it's closer to Christmas and there is nothing on there. It just seems like a huge difference.

 

[Xenom0rph]

So she's inviting you to be a 3rd wheel....???....

Seriously my man, you need to be on guard around these old women as i get the sense she's trying to use you either financially or as an emotion tampon.....

....always be wary around post-wall cat ladies, most of them are self-absorbed narcissists that crave validation like a meth fiend.....

 

[nicksaiz65]

Damn, I paid $29 for it, I like to feel the pages of a book cause I went to speedreading classes in 9th grade. Also, I wanted to donate to Roosh. It's not often that I donate to really much of anything, but when I see a cause I'm up for, I'll part with a half an hour worth of my work/time.

Did you get the hardcover?

I like physical books too. But nowadays I appreciate keeping all my books in my phone. I bought it on Kindle before Amazon purged it.

 

[espanish]

OP,
I think it would help you to go out there, make mistakes, and learn from them instead of asking theoretical questions on forums all day.
I know you are worried that the date won't go well and it will be a waste of your time. But I said this to another member too, I have learned more from my bad dates than the good ones. It won't be a waste of time if you learn a thing or two.
For example, you might tell the milf something that turns her off, and you will learn "next time I shouldn't say that"
How do you learn more about spain? by going to spain or by watching a youtube video on spain?
but it's not like you are going to listen to me, tomorrow you will be back asking more theoretical questions.

 

[biggoal]

So she's inviting you to be a 3rd wheel....???....

Seriously my man, you need to be on guard around these old women as i get the sense she's trying to use you either financially or as an emotion tampon.....

....always be wary around post-wall cat ladies, most of them are self-absorbed narcissists that crave validation like a meth fiend.....

I think more as a friend, emotional tampon just based on her personality and all. She does seem like a nice person. Very friendly and all. She does say the 13 year age gap is really big though and keeps having second thoughts on it but says we could possibly be friends and invite me to do stuff with her. She wants someone she can marry and that.

I mean, obviously she wasn't repulsed be my lol or should would have never replied. So could it be possible she's thinking FWB still on the side then? Like I said I don't see much with this.

What angle of approach would you take with her?

 

[biggoal]

Did you get the hardcover?

I like physical books too. But nowadays I appreciate keeping all my books in my phone. I bought it on Kindle before Amazon purged it.

I did learn not to spend $60 on meal dates anymore. FIrst date should be something cheap and simple when meeting for the first time, especially if it's an OLD girl.