Well that dissertation got her to reply! What is an HB99 lol? I mean, what qualifies as that?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
42 yr old HB9 just replied to me on match
- Thread starter biggoal
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No lol. Since my shop is in the same town she lives in I'll just message her tomorrow and see if she wants drinks or coffee maybe. It's cheap and not even really a first official real date. Besides its quick and simple. I'm not getting burned with 60 dollar dinner dates again.
Shrubber101
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The fact that you have to ask S.S for advice every time you so much as scratch your arse and your obsession with OLD tells me you need to work on your inner game before anything else.
You need to find out who you are and then own your s#it.
You need to find out who you are and then own your s#it.
RickTheToad
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It's not real. Nor are the HB whatever numbers you use. You need to come off cloud 9 and come back to reality. That's one of your biggest issues IMO.
Why is that? The damaged goods, single moms, competing against 100s of guys, hoping they see your message?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She replied tonight again. She went out shopping with her sister after work. She said she was going to see if her friends would want to meet up for a drink downtown and invite me but it was pretty late she felt. She is tight on time this weekend she thinks but she wants to meet she said.
Wtf does that mean for a first dating meeting with her friends? Is that like a pre date? Lol if that's the case then I hope she has a orgy in mind and her friends are hot. I'm also texting with a hb7 39 yr old 50 miles away as well.
Wtf does that mean for a first dating meeting with her friends? Is that like a pre date? Lol if that's the case then I hope she has a orgy in mind and her friends are hot. I'm also texting with a hb7 39 yr old 50 miles away as well.
RickTheToad
Moderator
She sees you as girlfriend material, not fvckable material. You know, she can complain to you about the dudes she actually fvcks and how they are all d!cks and *******s. You lost this one dude.
IF she has hot friends can she share them with me at least! I mean what about FWB? She's 42, divorced and has no kids and on her profile she says defiantly wants kids listed under wants children. I mean, her time is running out to have kids. Is that a red flag for a 42 yr old to list on their profile?
I talked to that former Trooper again tonight trying to smooth it out but she really is mad at me and doesn't want to see me again all because I called her out on her flaky behavior. She's low end HB7 that chick. Luckily I have 3 more to focus on right now that are hotter anyway.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Dude it's you. I swear, it's like watching a dude make every single mistake over and over again. Like a social groundhogs day for you.
2Rocky
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DelayedGratification
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This is why I've had to stop myself several times in the past week from even bothering to respond to these threads. Waste of time, and even more frustrating to watch the slow-motion train wreck as he simply refuses to process the information. Either he's an unbelievably clever troll, or just an AFC who is so entrenched in a rut that it's going to take some very direct and personal pain-points for him to finally realize that fundamental changes are in order.
That his mindset is reminiscent of the flawed worldview from my former self makes it all the more painful to witness. But given what I've seen of the posting history, I honestly don't know what I can possibly say that will have any positive impact.
RickTheToad
Moderator
I think he may be on the spectrum. Spectrum people do not usually understand common sense.
That HB7 41 year old MILF who was texting me pics from her friends child's birthday party last night texted me a couple pics of her and her HB9 friend out having a drink today and having fun. Sent me 3 pics. The HB9 is supposed to be her best friend of 11 years. It looks liker her friend as a husband because he's a brawny looking guy with a beard. I think her friend is hotter lol.
Why does she sent me all these pics for?
Why does she sent me all these pics for?
Epicwinguy
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All women in their 40s are uglier than ****
But OLD down here most are 35 and over who are decent looking. Under 35 mostly land whales.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wrong thread. Should have been posted on the 41 year old one
What do you mean I'm doing THEM a favor?
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Mods just going to let you troll?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.