"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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40-something haridan laments leaving her fiancé at age 19 to chase c0ck carousel

ubercat

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Idk man I've got a lot of ks on the clock. Lot of years burnt hanging around with various types of crazy beeches. But in the last 10 + years once I learnt how to find them and screen I met some great women. And I'm 4 years in now with the best girlfriend I've ever had. and some of that is that I finally learnt how to manage a woman in a relationship properly.

Of course I m a DJ. I know it could end tomorrow and I would be sad for one week and pick myself up and go again. Yes there is the odd special snowflake but there's a lot of snow.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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