"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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40-something haridan laments leaving her fiancé at age 19 to chase c0ck carousel

ubercat

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Idk man I've got a lot of ks on the clock. Lot of years burnt hanging around with various types of crazy beeches. But in the last 10 + years once I learnt how to find them and screen I met some great women. And I'm 4 years in now with the best girlfriend I've ever had. and some of that is that I finally learnt how to manage a woman in a relationship properly.

Of course I m a DJ. I know it could end tomorrow and I would be sad for one week and pick myself up and go again. Yes there is the odd special snowflake but there's a lot of snow.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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