"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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4 dates - nothing but making out...

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UPDATE:

gave it 2 weeks, then invited her over for dinner, escalated early- ended up having sex before dinner

still zero initiation from her- not much of a texter- well neither am I really haha

also she didn't stay the night- had to get up early
sounds like mixed interest, I would just cash out with the sex and find a better broad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BackInTheGame78

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UPDATE:

gave it 2 weeks, then invited her over for dinner, escalated early- ended up having sex before dinner

still zero initiation from her- not much of a texter- well neither am I really haha

also she didn't stay the night- had to get up early
Told you that dinner invite works wonders ;)
 

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Girl I met on OLD. 1st date was just drinks. 2nd date a small hike- at this point after failing to escalate I thought nah this is low interest. Waited a week- set up a date- bowling & drinks- instant yes keen. Date was decent- made out at the end(why did I wait till the end). Next date a movie and which I realise is a terrible date option an at this stage she we should be smashing back at mine. But no just ended in making out.

I am not used to things progressing this slow- mostly of my own doing(feel low energy at the moment with work stress a study commitments)

4 dates and F all to show for it. Feels like I'm wasting my time.

I seem to be initiating all the contact- setting up the dates(not chit chat)

Do I bother with a next one or just move on?
Next time you go out, pull your pants down in the parking lot next to your car and see if she will suck your ****. If she thinks you are all that she will comply.
 
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