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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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4 dates - nothing but making out...

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UPDATE:

gave it 2 weeks, then invited her over for dinner, escalated early- ended up having sex before dinner

still zero initiation from her- not much of a texter- well neither am I really haha

also she didn't stay the night- had to get up early
sounds like mixed interest, I would just cash out with the sex and find a better broad.
 

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BackInTheGame78

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UPDATE:

gave it 2 weeks, then invited her over for dinner, escalated early- ended up having sex before dinner

still zero initiation from her- not much of a texter- well neither am I really haha

also she didn't stay the night- had to get up early
Told you that dinner invite works wonders ;)
 

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Girl I met on OLD. 1st date was just drinks. 2nd date a small hike- at this point after failing to escalate I thought nah this is low interest. Waited a week- set up a date- bowling & drinks- instant yes keen. Date was decent- made out at the end(why did I wait till the end). Next date a movie and which I realise is a terrible date option an at this stage she we should be smashing back at mine. But no just ended in making out.

I am not used to things progressing this slow- mostly of my own doing(feel low energy at the moment with work stress a study commitments)

4 dates and F all to show for it. Feels like I'm wasting my time.

I seem to be initiating all the contact- setting up the dates(not chit chat)

Do I bother with a next one or just move on?
Next time you go out, pull your pants down in the parking lot next to your car and see if she will suck your ****. If she thinks you are all that she will comply.
 
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