"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gray The Prince

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Parad0x said:
Baby steps, right? I like!

Is there a required length for the conversation, or in theory it could simply be: "Hey I really like your bag, looks pretty cool"

It can be short and sweet like that. A longer convo is highly encouraged but definitely not required.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go up to a girl who is waiting for food. "Hello... You ordered a man?"
 

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I've seen plutoman deliver approaches. Three of them stand out. I can verify his work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Demonpenz said:
Go up to a girl who is waiting for food. "Hello... You ordered a man?"
This was quite funny, haha.
 

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This was quite funny, haha.
It's even better when you see it in practice. I was surprised at how well it went over, too.

I've had fun lately opening girls that are texting...
"Hey, you can stop texting, I'm right here."
"Hey.. do you have service in here? I'm not getting your texts."
 

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Plutoman said:
It's even better when you see it in practice. I was surprised at how well it went over, too.

I've had fun lately opening girls that are texting...
"Hey, you can stop texting, I'm right here."
"Hey.. do you have service in here? I'm not getting your texts."
That one is really good, can I use it?
 

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I wouldn't have shared them if I wanted to keep them private. :p Actually, I think Demonpenz was the one that came up with that, worked well when I used it though. Fits my ****y personality.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey... I am all out of your number. Can you refill it into my phone?
 

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Pluto def refined the text line. I said something similar by like the Japanese and cameras he took a good idea and made it better.
 

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Well this is going quite well, I'll post all of the 12 together, but I already have 5 done, 3 HB5+ and 2 random people. And I had told myself I wouldn't do any today because I didn't feel so good hahah

Interestingly, one of my approaches was a girl that also climbs, and at the gym where I go. Shame she doesn't even rank as an HB5

Keep up the good work.
 

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fvck, havent even gone out today. Thank god my fvcking cast comes off tomorrow and i start class back up. Hitting the club on thursday is a must as well. Time to break this lazy rut i have .
 

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Tip for you guys - do not plan this sh!t out. Walk up with an empty mind and just say anything. If you get in a habit of this, you will get used to it and you will come up with gold on a regular basis. You'll be more free to pay attention to her instead of focusing on remembering lines.

Besides - you get a bigger confidence boost when you use your own stuff than just repeating lines. It will mean she is reacting to YOU and not some line.

Good luck gentlemen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i'm going to do this at the weekend so i hope it's not to late. though my fav new opener is.

hey, my names herb... because you are what you smoke.


don't even care if it doesn't work.. makes me laugh every time i say it
 

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Mr. Bond said:
Tip for you guys - do not plan this sh!t out. Walk up with an empty mind and just say anything. If you get in a habit of this, you will get used to it and you will come up with gold on a regular basis. You'll be more free to pay attention to her instead of focusing on remembering lines.

Besides - you get a bigger confidence boost when you use your own stuff than just repeating lines. It will mean she is reacting to YOU and not some line.

Good luck gentlemen.
yeah, this is what i have been doing. though for the newer guys. i would say use a mix. because after a short while you run out of things to say. your brains ain't used to it and it shuts down. especially if you have success barriers and you feel like poo in the club.

i get pretty bad AA when i'm in the club. i get huge anxiety too. but hey just push past that ****!
 

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Is it too late for me to join the contest? Did not see this post til now.
 

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Is it too late for me to join the contest? Did not see this post til now.

It is too late to sign up for the contest, however you are still welcomed to do the tasks for your own self-improvement.
 

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I stumbled upon a no fap thread here and AAAgent said the following about it.
Since he didn't post it yet (or maybe he did and I didn't see it) I thought I'd post it.

"im going to incorporate this into the 3rd Gladiator AA competition."

Here's the thread - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195624 (post #4)

So fellas, do NOT masturbate. It will help you out a lot, seriously.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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