Gray The Prince
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Parad0x said:
It can be short and sweet like that. A longer convo is highly encouraged but definitely not required.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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It can be short and sweet like that. A longer convo is highly encouraged but definitely not required.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
JohnChops
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And so it begins 
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Masculinity
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This was quite funny, haha.Demonpenz said:
It's even better when you see it in practice. I was surprised at how well it went over, too.Robyn923b said:
I've had fun lately opening girls that are texting...
"Hey, you can stop texting, I'm right here."
"Hey.. do you have service in here? I'm not getting your texts."
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Gray The Prince
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Parad0x said:
Keep up the good work.
JohnChops
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fvck, havent even gone out today. Thank god my fvcking cast comes off tomorrow and i start class back up. Hitting the club on thursday is a must as well. Time to break this lazy rut i have .
Tip for you guys - do not plan this sh!t out. Walk up with an empty mind and just say anything. If you get in a habit of this, you will get used to it and you will come up with gold on a regular basis. You'll be more free to pay attention to her instead of focusing on remembering lines.
Besides - you get a bigger confidence boost when you use your own stuff than just repeating lines. It will mean she is reacting to YOU and not some line.
Good luck gentlemen.
Besides - you get a bigger confidence boost when you use your own stuff than just repeating lines. It will mean she is reacting to YOU and not some line.
Good luck gentlemen.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i'm going to do this at the weekend so i hope it's not to late. though my fav new opener is.
hey, my names herb... because you are what you smoke.
don't even care if it doesn't work.. makes me laugh every time i say it
hey, my names herb... because you are what you smoke.
don't even care if it doesn't work.. makes me laugh every time i say it
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
yeah, this is what i have been doing. though for the newer guys. i would say use a mix. because after a short while you run out of things to say. your brains ain't used to it and it shuts down. especially if you have success barriers and you feel like poo in the club.Mr. Bond said:
i get pretty bad AA when i'm in the club. i get huge anxiety too. but hey just push past that ****!
Gray The Prince
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Naozumie said:
It is too late to sign up for the contest, however you are still welcomed to do the tasks for your own self-improvement.
I stumbled upon a no fap thread here and AAAgent said the following about it.
Since he didn't post it yet (or maybe he did and I didn't see it) I thought I'd post it.
"im going to incorporate this into the 3rd Gladiator AA competition."
Here's the thread - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195624 (post #4)
So fellas, do NOT masturbate. It will help you out a lot, seriously.
Since he didn't post it yet (or maybe he did and I didn't see it) I thought I'd post it.
"im going to incorporate this into the 3rd Gladiator AA competition."
Here's the thread - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195624 (post #4)
So fellas, do NOT masturbate. It will help you out a lot, seriously.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.