WhiskeyTango
Don Juan
This has been my experience also. Make the most of the 3 or 4 months of sex and move on. I would not get emotionally involved with one.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
30 year olds...
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This has been my experience also. Make the most of the 3 or 4 months of sex and move on. I would not get emotionally involved with one.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
1) she was born in Russia and is now Americanized just like I was born in South Korea and I am very americanized. We have a understanding of what we went through growing up in american public schools and she is around my age
2) she lives like 6 miles alway from me
3) she said I was a "Hot Asian Guy" ... So she finds me attractive
4) she is 30 but she looks like she is 25 or less, Tall, long hair and no nasty accent but all the good looks.. No tats no wierd piercings..
5) I go 10 hours to reply to a text and she will respond in 3 min.
I will say though I got sooooo attached to my last ltr's kids this is a lil scary.
If only she didn't have the kid... Ya know? Can't just not give this a shot
TheMonkeyKing
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Sounds like a habit you have, and you are looking for us to give you the green light.
Do what you want man. You obviously understand the consequences or you wouldn't be questioning it. Understand this, also; very little we do in life is without consequence.
Time for a re-frame. The question isn't get with the girl or not; the main consideration only ever need be, whether or not you man enough to deal with the (potential) fallout.
you are aware what you listed here could mean any girl right? that means only 2 things to me, you look for single moms, and lack options
Yep.
Just got rid of one who is also bipolar. ..
She was lazy, bad debt even tho great job, never cooked, only thought about what u are doing for her and her kid. Never appreciated anything by showing it with her own acts of kindness.
That's a harsh ****ing life.
And the ex is around and a pain in the ass especially if he is inferior to u. Lots of added problems and stress.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.