WhiskeyTango
Don Juan
This has been my experience also. Make the most of the 3 or 4 months of sex and move on. I would not get emotionally involved with one.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
30 year olds...
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This has been my experience also. Make the most of the 3 or 4 months of sex and move on. I would not get emotionally involved with one.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
1) she was born in Russia and is now Americanized just like I was born in South Korea and I am very americanized. We have a understanding of what we went through growing up in american public schools and she is around my age
2) she lives like 6 miles alway from me
3) she said I was a "Hot Asian Guy" ... So she finds me attractive
4) she is 30 but she looks like she is 25 or less, Tall, long hair and no nasty accent but all the good looks.. No tats no wierd piercings..
5) I go 10 hours to reply to a text and she will respond in 3 min.
I will say though I got sooooo attached to my last ltr's kids this is a lil scary.
If only she didn't have the kid... Ya know? Can't just not give this a shot
TheMonkeyKing
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Sounds like a habit you have, and you are looking for us to give you the green light.
Do what you want man. You obviously understand the consequences or you wouldn't be questioning it. Understand this, also; very little we do in life is without consequence.
Time for a re-frame. The question isn't get with the girl or not; the main consideration only ever need be, whether or not you man enough to deal with the (potential) fallout.
you are aware what you listed here could mean any girl right? that means only 2 things to me, you look for single moms, and lack options
Yep.
Just got rid of one who is also bipolar. ..
She was lazy, bad debt even tho great job, never cooked, only thought about what u are doing for her and her kid. Never appreciated anything by showing it with her own acts of kindness.
That's a harsh ****ing life.
And the ex is around and a pain in the ass especially if he is inferior to u. Lots of added problems and stress.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.