WhiskeyTango
Don Juan
This has been my experience also. Make the most of the 3 or 4 months of sex and move on. I would not get emotionally involved with one.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
30 year olds...
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This has been my experience also. Make the most of the 3 or 4 months of sex and move on. I would not get emotionally involved with one.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
1) she was born in Russia and is now Americanized just like I was born in South Korea and I am very americanized. We have a understanding of what we went through growing up in american public schools and she is around my age
2) she lives like 6 miles alway from me
3) she said I was a "Hot Asian Guy" ... So she finds me attractive
4) she is 30 but she looks like she is 25 or less, Tall, long hair and no nasty accent but all the good looks.. No tats no wierd piercings..
5) I go 10 hours to reply to a text and she will respond in 3 min.
I will say though I got sooooo attached to my last ltr's kids this is a lil scary.
If only she didn't have the kid... Ya know? Can't just not give this a shot
TheMonkeyKing
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Sounds like a habit you have, and you are looking for us to give you the green light.
Do what you want man. You obviously understand the consequences or you wouldn't be questioning it. Understand this, also; very little we do in life is without consequence.
Time for a re-frame. The question isn't get with the girl or not; the main consideration only ever need be, whether or not you man enough to deal with the (potential) fallout.
you are aware what you listed here could mean any girl right? that means only 2 things to me, you look for single moms, and lack options
Yep.
Just got rid of one who is also bipolar. ..
She was lazy, bad debt even tho great job, never cooked, only thought about what u are doing for her and her kid. Never appreciated anything by showing it with her own acts of kindness.
That's a harsh ****ing life.
And the ex is around and a pain in the ass especially if he is inferior to u. Lots of added problems and stress.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.