"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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3 Warning Signs She Will Flake On A Date (video)

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your_Royal_Flyness said:
"3 WARNING SIGNS SHE WILL FLAKE ON A DATE (VIDEO)"
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
#3 is something that guys seem to misunderstand or kid themselves that she's being polite as well as showing interest.

No, she does not. Even if she does end up going, her mind will be elsewhere as well as cutting the night short. I just tell her it's not going to work and to "take it easy". It's not worth my time to even bother meeting up.

If she does come back around after a while on her own (i don't contact those types) and says she wants to try again, I won't repeat a FRI/SAT meet, she'll be stuck going out with me on other days until she proves she's really interested.

On this second round, in most cases, the girl will balk at me not providing a FRI/SAT meet date so I drop her completely because it's obvious what she's up to. Not only that, she's showing her character to be very bad compared to the first just "call me that day...", that could mean anything. Ex BF just showed up, she has another possible date, whatever, that's fine. But, when she comes after me when I already did the "this isn't going to work" bit, and then dictates FRI/SAT then she's just a biatch that's targeted me to be one of her backups.
 
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ThatMysteriousGuy said:
#3 is something that guys seem to misunderstand or kid themselves that she's being polite as well as showing interest.

No, she does not. Even if she does end up going, her mind will be elsewhere as well as cutting the night short. I just tell her it's not going to work and to "take it easy". It's not worth my time to even bother meeting up.

If she does come back around after a while on her own (i don't contact those types) and says she wants to try again, I won't repeat a FRI/SAT meet, she'll be stuck going out with me on other days until she proves she's really interested.

On this second round, in most cases, the girl will balk at me not providing a FRI/SAT meet date so I drop her completely because it's obvious what she's up to. Not only that, she's showing her character to be very bad compared to the first just "call me that day...", that could mean anything. Ex BF just showed up, she has another possible date, whatever, that's fine. But, when she comes after me when I already did the "this isn't going to work" bit, and then dictates FRI/SAT then she's just a biatch that's targeted me to be one of her backups.
:up: REAL TALK!
 

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3# - is an easy out for a woman and something i don't think any guy should fall for in the first place.

i'll tell why later today
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Phenomenal One said:
3# - is an easy out for a woman and something i don't think any guy should fall for in the first place.

i'll tell why later today
I'm looking forward to it! I'm loving the synergy on this board.
 

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Can't watch this now, on my phone at work.

Can you post the list?
 

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A woman is telling the guy "i'm not interested" by doing that.

1.) Even thou he asked her out, SHE still wants HIM to confirm the date. (and i don't think the other way around is any better)
2.) Anything can happen between the day you asked her out and the day you call to confirm (for the guy and for the girl).
3.) Why would she want time to pass for the guy or herself on the "day to confirm" to be busy?
4.) You're basically asking her out again but wanting the date to happen the same day.
 

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Dude,
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"

I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
 
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Dude,
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"

I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
So because I give game to women, I'm all of a sudden "playing both sides" and giving them a sense of entitlement? Please--you act as if I spit the same, "You're all princesses" and "Every man is a dog" BS. I talk nothing but realness. I tell dudes to step their confidence up while in the same breath, tell women to drop the weight.

I give game to anyone who's receptive to it--women included. What I say is 100% genuine, despite the gender it is directed toward. In fact, my second book is "The Ladies Guide to Finding Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now Online"--I give females what they NEED to hear, versus the BS many cats give them. A lot of females thought I was too harsh. I say, "Oh well." So I guess you can't please them all. Yet, the bottom line is, if a man's game is thorough, then it should not concern him what I say to females.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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