Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
"3 WARNING SIGNS SHE WILL FLAKE ON A DATE (VIDEO)"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
3 Warning Signs She Will Flake On A Date (video)
- Thread starter Your_Royal_Flyness
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ThatMysteriousGuy
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#3 is something that guys seem to misunderstand or kid themselves that she's being polite as well as showing interest.Your_Royal_Flyness said:
No, she does not. Even if she does end up going, her mind will be elsewhere as well as cutting the night short. I just tell her it's not going to work and to "take it easy". It's not worth my time to even bother meeting up.
If she does come back around after a while on her own (i don't contact those types) and says she wants to try again, I won't repeat a FRI/SAT meet, she'll be stuck going out with me on other days until she proves she's really interested.
On this second round, in most cases, the girl will balk at me not providing a FRI/SAT meet date so I drop her completely because it's obvious what she's up to. Not only that, she's showing her character to be very bad compared to the first just "call me that day...", that could mean anything. Ex BF just showed up, she has another possible date, whatever, that's fine. But, when she comes after me when I already did the "this isn't going to work" bit, and then dictates FRI/SAT then she's just a biatch that's targeted me to be one of her backups.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
ThatMysteriousGuy said:
REAL TALK!Phenomenal One
Don Juan
3# - is an easy out for a woman and something i don't think any guy should fall for in the first place.
i'll tell why later today
i'll tell why later today
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I'm looking forward to it! I'm loving the synergy on this board.Phenomenal One said:
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Can't watch this now, on my phone at work.
Can you post the list?
Can you post the list?
Phenomenal One
Don Juan
A woman is telling the guy "i'm not interested" by doing that.
1.) Even thou he asked her out, SHE still wants HIM to confirm the date. (and i don't think the other way around is any better)
2.) Anything can happen between the day you asked her out and the day you call to confirm (for the guy and for the girl).
3.) Why would she want time to pass for the guy or herself on the "day to confirm" to be busy?
4.) You're basically asking her out again but wanting the date to happen the same day.
1.) Even thou he asked her out, SHE still wants HIM to confirm the date. (and i don't think the other way around is any better)
2.) Anything can happen between the day you asked her out and the day you call to confirm (for the guy and for the girl).
3.) Why would she want time to pass for the guy or herself on the "day to confirm" to be busy?
4.) You're basically asking her out again but wanting the date to happen the same day.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Dude,
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"
I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"
I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
So because I give game to women, I'm all of a sudden "playing both sides" and giving them a sense of entitlement? Please--you act as if I spit the same, "You're all princesses" and "Every man is a dog" BS. I talk nothing but realness. I tell dudes to step their confidence up while in the same breath, tell women to drop the weight.Atom Smasher said:
I give game to anyone who's receptive to it--women included. What I say is 100% genuine, despite the gender it is directed toward. In fact, my second book is "The Ladies Guide to Finding Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now Online"--I give females what they NEED to hear, versus the BS many cats give them. A lot of females thought I was too harsh. I say, "Oh well." So I guess you can't please them all. Yet, the bottom line is, if a man's game is thorough, then it should not concern him what I say to females.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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