Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
"3 WARNING SIGNS SHE WILL FLAKE ON A DATE (VIDEO)"
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
#3 is something that guys seem to misunderstand or kid themselves that she's being polite as well as showing interest.Your_Royal_Flyness said:"3 WARNING SIGNS SHE WILL FLAKE ON A DATE (VIDEO)"
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
ThatMysteriousGuy said:#3 is something that guys seem to misunderstand or kid themselves that she's being polite as well as showing interest.
No, she does not. Even if she does end up going, her mind will be elsewhere as well as cutting the night short. I just tell her it's not going to work and to "take it easy". It's not worth my time to even bother meeting up.
If she does come back around after a while on her own (i don't contact those types) and says she wants to try again, I won't repeat a FRI/SAT meet, she'll be stuck going out with me on other days until she proves she's really interested.
On this second round, in most cases, the girl will balk at me not providing a FRI/SAT meet date so I drop her completely because it's obvious what she's up to. Not only that, she's showing her character to be very bad compared to the first just "call me that day...", that could mean anything. Ex BF just showed up, she has another possible date, whatever, that's fine. But, when she comes after me when I already did the "this isn't going to work" bit, and then dictates FRI/SAT then she's just a biatch that's targeted me to be one of her backups.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm looking forward to it! I'm loving the synergy on this board.Phenomenal One said:3# - is an easy out for a woman and something i don't think any guy should fall for in the first place.
i'll tell why later today
So because I give game to women, I'm all of a sudden "playing both sides" and giving them a sense of entitlement? Please--you act as if I spit the same, "You're all princesses" and "Every man is a dog" BS. I talk nothing but realness. I tell dudes to step their confidence up while in the same breath, tell women to drop the weight.Atom Smasher said:Dude,
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"
I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.