Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
"3 WARNING SIGNS SHE WILL FLAKE ON A DATE (VIDEO)"
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
3 Warning Signs She Will Flake On A Date (video)
- Thread starter Your_Royal_Flyness
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ThatMysteriousGuy
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#3 is something that guys seem to misunderstand or kid themselves that she's being polite as well as showing interest.Your_Royal_Flyness said:
No, she does not. Even if she does end up going, her mind will be elsewhere as well as cutting the night short. I just tell her it's not going to work and to "take it easy". It's not worth my time to even bother meeting up.
If she does come back around after a while on her own (i don't contact those types) and says she wants to try again, I won't repeat a FRI/SAT meet, she'll be stuck going out with me on other days until she proves she's really interested.
On this second round, in most cases, the girl will balk at me not providing a FRI/SAT meet date so I drop her completely because it's obvious what she's up to. Not only that, she's showing her character to be very bad compared to the first just "call me that day...", that could mean anything. Ex BF just showed up, she has another possible date, whatever, that's fine. But, when she comes after me when I already did the "this isn't going to work" bit, and then dictates FRI/SAT then she's just a biatch that's targeted me to be one of her backups.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
ThatMysteriousGuy said:
REAL TALK!Phenomenal One
Don Juan
3# - is an easy out for a woman and something i don't think any guy should fall for in the first place.
i'll tell why later today
i'll tell why later today
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I'm looking forward to it! I'm loving the synergy on this board.Phenomenal One said:
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Can't watch this now, on my phone at work.
Can you post the list?
Can you post the list?
Phenomenal One
Don Juan
A woman is telling the guy "i'm not interested" by doing that.
1.) Even thou he asked her out, SHE still wants HIM to confirm the date. (and i don't think the other way around is any better)
2.) Anything can happen between the day you asked her out and the day you call to confirm (for the guy and for the girl).
3.) Why would she want time to pass for the guy or herself on the "day to confirm" to be busy?
4.) You're basically asking her out again but wanting the date to happen the same day.
1.) Even thou he asked her out, SHE still wants HIM to confirm the date. (and i don't think the other way around is any better)
2.) Anything can happen between the day you asked her out and the day you call to confirm (for the guy and for the girl).
3.) Why would she want time to pass for the guy or herself on the "day to confirm" to be busy?
4.) You're basically asking her out again but wanting the date to happen the same day.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Dude,
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"
I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
Why are you playin both sides? I saw your video called, "Ladies - How to tell if a guy is potentially desperate"
I know it's all about the almighty dollar, but all you're doing is perpetuating women's sense of entitlement.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
So because I give game to women, I'm all of a sudden "playing both sides" and giving them a sense of entitlement? Please--you act as if I spit the same, "You're all princesses" and "Every man is a dog" BS. I talk nothing but realness. I tell dudes to step their confidence up while in the same breath, tell women to drop the weight.Atom Smasher said:
I give game to anyone who's receptive to it--women included. What I say is 100% genuine, despite the gender it is directed toward. In fact, my second book is "The Ladies Guide to Finding Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now Online"--I give females what they NEED to hear, versus the BS many cats give them. A lot of females thought I was too harsh. I say, "Oh well." So I guess you can't please them all. Yet, the bottom line is, if a man's game is thorough, then it should not concern him what I say to females.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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