"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to approach about 3 girls in the bar of a club? let's say you go there and say hi but they make kinda fun of you.. i mean they talk to you but show ZERO interest? how to get their attention?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a hard one -- look for positive eye contact and feel the vibes first and then ask the girl that you are interested in to dance - ISOLATATION!!

If you are in a group then do the "Wingman" thing!
 
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hehe but bro if you cant initiate eye contact? if you're just behind the girl and see that shes hot? thats an even harder one =) but thats what im pointing on
 
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Originally posted by rapsta
hehe but bro if you cant initiate eye contact? if you're just behind the girl and see that shes hot? thats an even harder one =) but thats what im pointing on
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Why get stuck on one group of girls? If they ain't giving you play, look for more approachable girls.
 
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Man im not talking just about yesterday. It can be a good thing to know when you're going out another time, or the next time, or next :) feel me?
Sure i can go approach someone else, but why not ask about tips about this? maybe someone is good at this stuff? :) peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's probably best to get some social proof going in the the place before you just plain walk up to a group of girls........be in their site when you walk up to other people and say hi (its doesn't have to go good just let them see you talking to others).....when you finally do walk up to the group of girls you'll have some practice worked in and a little bit of confidence on your shoulders aswell......you should get a much warmer reception if you do these things.
 
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All of this is in the DJB, I'd highly recommend taking time to read it. From isolation to cold approaches, you'll find that this and many other questions you never knew you had are all answered by reading the articles and threads contained in the following link:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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