Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to approach about 3 girls in the bar of a club? let's say you go there and say hi but they make kinda fun of you.. i mean they talk to you but show ZERO interest? how to get their attention?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is a hard one -- look for positive eye contact and feel the vibes first and then ask the girl that you are interested in to dance - ISOLATATION!!

If you are in a group then do the "Wingman" thing!
 
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hehe but bro if you cant initiate eye contact? if you're just behind the girl and see that shes hot? thats an even harder one =) but thats what im pointing on
 
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Originally posted by rapsta
hehe but bro if you cant initiate eye contact? if you're just behind the girl and see that shes hot? thats an even harder one =) but thats what im pointing on
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Why get stuck on one group of girls? If they ain't giving you play, look for more approachable girls.
 
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Man im not talking just about yesterday. It can be a good thing to know when you're going out another time, or the next time, or next :) feel me?
Sure i can go approach someone else, but why not ask about tips about this? maybe someone is good at this stuff? :) peace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's probably best to get some social proof going in the the place before you just plain walk up to a group of girls........be in their site when you walk up to other people and say hi (its doesn't have to go good just let them see you talking to others).....when you finally do walk up to the group of girls you'll have some practice worked in and a little bit of confidence on your shoulders aswell......you should get a much warmer reception if you do these things.
 
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All of this is in the DJB, I'd highly recommend taking time to read it. From isolation to cold approaches, you'll find that this and many other questions you never knew you had are all answered by reading the articles and threads contained in the following link:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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