"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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2nd date with girl 2 days in a row, logistics?

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jnMissouri

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So I met this girl online Wednesday, we had coffee yesterday. She is SMOKING hot, not from around here originally, southern. Different than most Seattle women. She texted me in the middle of the night and wanted to hang out again today. Suggested pool, etc. I'm a bit leery of taking her out to a pool hall, they are kind of seedy and it's not to my advantage, plus I suck at pool. Plus that thing about not giving her exactly what she wants....(David DeAngelo)

I was thinking of maybe a beach area hang out or something else. She had even mentioned hiking or a park during our date as she is not into bars really, though when she texted me in the middle of the night she was suggesting she plays pool better after a couple drinks, ha! I can't spend too much time with her as I do have to be home lest my girl gets suspicious. As far as anyone is concerned, I'm at happy hour with colleagues. This girls interest seems high, and things are moving forward fast, it's going to be really difficult being absent from home this frequently...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you shouldn't be counting chickens before they hatch. You haven't even gone on a 2nd date yet and you've already built up a relationship with her in your fantasies.
 
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billtx49 said:
So you’re basically saying you’re ready, thinking about, or willing to cheat on your home bound SO…
Doesn’t usually end well for all concerned. Shady behavior ar best.
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marmel75 said:
I think you shouldn't be counting chickens before they hatch. You haven't even gone on a 2nd date yet and you've already built up a relationship with her in your fantasies.
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these two guys got it
 
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Stop right now.

Accept her advances, but you're a way too busy to see some chick two days in a row. Counter offer for a week from now. Make these bitches wait, dude. You're way too eager.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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