"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2nd date with girl 2 days in a row, logistics?

jnMissouri

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So I met this girl online Wednesday, we had coffee yesterday. She is SMOKING hot, not from around here originally, southern. Different than most Seattle women. She texted me in the middle of the night and wanted to hang out again today. Suggested pool, etc. I'm a bit leery of taking her out to a pool hall, they are kind of seedy and it's not to my advantage, plus I suck at pool. Plus that thing about not giving her exactly what she wants....(David DeAngelo)

I was thinking of maybe a beach area hang out or something else. She had even mentioned hiking or a park during our date as she is not into bars really, though when she texted me in the middle of the night she was suggesting she plays pool better after a couple drinks, ha! I can't spend too much time with her as I do have to be home lest my girl gets suspicious. As far as anyone is concerned, I'm at happy hour with colleagues. This girls interest seems high, and things are moving forward fast, it's going to be really difficult being absent from home this frequently...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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I think you shouldn't be counting chickens before they hatch. You haven't even gone on a 2nd date yet and you've already built up a relationship with her in your fantasies.
 

devilkingx2

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So you’re basically saying you’re ready, thinking about, or willing to cheat on your home bound SO…
Doesn’t usually end well for all concerned. Shady behavior ar best.
I think you shouldn't be counting chickens before they hatch. You haven't even gone on a 2nd date yet and you've already built up a relationship with her in your fantasies.
these two guys got it
 

EyeBRollin

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Stop right now.

Accept her advances, but you're a way too busy to see some chick two days in a row. Counter offer for a week from now. Make these bitches wait, dude. You're way too eager.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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