"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2nd date with girl 2 days in a row, logistics?

jnMissouri

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So I met this girl online Wednesday, we had coffee yesterday. She is SMOKING hot, not from around here originally, southern. Different than most Seattle women. She texted me in the middle of the night and wanted to hang out again today. Suggested pool, etc. I'm a bit leery of taking her out to a pool hall, they are kind of seedy and it's not to my advantage, plus I suck at pool. Plus that thing about not giving her exactly what she wants....(David DeAngelo)

I was thinking of maybe a beach area hang out or something else. She had even mentioned hiking or a park during our date as she is not into bars really, though when she texted me in the middle of the night she was suggesting she plays pool better after a couple drinks, ha! I can't spend too much time with her as I do have to be home lest my girl gets suspicious. As far as anyone is concerned, I'm at happy hour with colleagues. This girls interest seems high, and things are moving forward fast, it's going to be really difficult being absent from home this frequently...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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I think you shouldn't be counting chickens before they hatch. You haven't even gone on a 2nd date yet and you've already built up a relationship with her in your fantasies.
 

devilkingx2

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So you’re basically saying you’re ready, thinking about, or willing to cheat on your home bound SO…
Doesn’t usually end well for all concerned. Shady behavior ar best.
I think you shouldn't be counting chickens before they hatch. You haven't even gone on a 2nd date yet and you've already built up a relationship with her in your fantasies.
these two guys got it
 

EyeBRollin

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Stop right now.

Accept her advances, but you're a way too busy to see some chick two days in a row. Counter offer for a week from now. Make these bitches wait, dude. You're way too eager.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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