"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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27 Year old Makes over 7 Grand a Month, Pays No Rent And Has -$34 In Bank account

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Some quick takeaways

  • This girl gives me "escort" or Sugar baby energy, On her IG, it looks like she has a link to selling smut on the side (shame)
  • Single Mother 27 years old but her 12-year-old son only lives with her part-time
  • Has no degree, no skills never held a job longer than 3 months
  • She makes $7500 a month But is broke
  • Wants a 90K wedding (delusional)
  • There is no reason for her to be this broke since her Boyfriend pays the 6K mortgage a month by himself
  • She spends $1500 on Ubers since she has no car
  • She is better off using that $1500 and buying a beater or buying a car

This is a glaring example of a girl who is able to utilize her looks but instead of saving money or putting it towards something tangible sounds like she is just wasting it on the LA party scene and trying to live a lifestyle she can't afford
I agree with the youtuber she needs to get the heck outta LA, and focus on her kid. She is gorgeous but eventually, her looks will fade and she won't be able to sell OF smut.

There is no reason for someone making 7 grand plus a month to be living check to check or month to month.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guarantee you she's emotionally unstable and emotionally immature. Not enough accountability in her life.
 

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i'm more curious about who that fuc|< is the dumbass who is paying 6k to her?

please never be this guy
 

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i'm more curious about who that fuc|< is the dumbass who is paying 6k to her?

please never be this guy
47 year old guy, you best belive the average 27 year old can't afford that, heck even if one could, they could get the version of her 5 years younger with no kids, and far less debt
 

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I wish I had more time to watch this video. Based on the summary and the few minutes I did see, this woman has so many red flags.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wish I had more time to watch this video. Based on the summary and the few minutes I did see, this woman has so many red flags.
You should watch it, it goes in line with the semi-successful and successful man trope. I think environment/culture has a huge thing to do with this as well let me explain. A woman like this IMO in LA is overshooting her value(there are tons of pretty girls like her in LA, she is a dime a dozen) in the midwest she would be married to a guy who is semi-successful if she didn't have a kid she probably could get a successful guy but remember what is deemed successful in LA is different than what's deemed successful in Wisconsin or other parts of the country.
 

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The jealousy some women have of their blonde, blue-eyed counterparts knows no bounds lmao.
 

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She's got big teats - for quite some time, she will be able to marry her way out of any financial problems. :rolleyes:
 

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I wish I had more time to watch this video. Based on the summary and the few minutes I did see, this woman has so many red flags.
Yes, but her headlamps easily make up for those flags. :cool:
 

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i'm more curious about who that fuc|< is the dumbass who is paying 6k to her?

please never be this guy
There are many men who would gladly sign up to be that guy. :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes, but her headlamps easily make up for those flags. :cool:
She has good breasts. Her breasts don't make up for her being a single mom or having a bad financial situation.
 

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She has good breasts. Her breasts don't make up for her being a single mom or having a bad financial situation.
Sure they do - at least for some quite thirsty men.
 
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