"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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27 Year old Makes over 7 Grand a Month, Pays No Rent And Has -$34 In Bank account

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Some quick takeaways

  • This girl gives me "escort" or Sugar baby energy, On her IG, it looks like she has a link to selling smut on the side (shame)
  • Single Mother 27 years old but her 12-year-old son only lives with her part-time
  • Has no degree, no skills never held a job longer than 3 months
  • She makes $7500 a month But is broke
  • Wants a 90K wedding (delusional)
  • There is no reason for her to be this broke since her Boyfriend pays the 6K mortgage a month by himself
  • She spends $1500 on Ubers since she has no car
  • She is better off using that $1500 and buying a beater or buying a car

This is a glaring example of a girl who is able to utilize her looks but instead of saving money or putting it towards something tangible sounds like she is just wasting it on the LA party scene and trying to live a lifestyle she can't afford
I agree with the youtuber she needs to get the heck outta LA, and focus on her kid. She is gorgeous but eventually, her looks will fade and she won't be able to sell OF smut.

There is no reason for someone making 7 grand plus a month to be living check to check or month to month.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guarantee you she's emotionally unstable and emotionally immature. Not enough accountability in her life.
 

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i'm more curious about who that fuc|< is the dumbass who is paying 6k to her?

please never be this guy
 

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i'm more curious about who that fuc|< is the dumbass who is paying 6k to her?

please never be this guy
47 year old guy, you best belive the average 27 year old can't afford that, heck even if one could, they could get the version of her 5 years younger with no kids, and far less debt
 

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I wish I had more time to watch this video. Based on the summary and the few minutes I did see, this woman has so many red flags.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wish I had more time to watch this video. Based on the summary and the few minutes I did see, this woman has so many red flags.
You should watch it, it goes in line with the semi-successful and successful man trope. I think environment/culture has a huge thing to do with this as well let me explain. A woman like this IMO in LA is overshooting her value(there are tons of pretty girls like her in LA, she is a dime a dozen) in the midwest she would be married to a guy who is semi-successful if she didn't have a kid she probably could get a successful guy but remember what is deemed successful in LA is different than what's deemed successful in Wisconsin or other parts of the country.
 

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The jealousy some women have of their blonde, blue-eyed counterparts knows no bounds lmao.
 

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She's got big teats - for quite some time, she will be able to marry her way out of any financial problems. :rolleyes:
 

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I wish I had more time to watch this video. Based on the summary and the few minutes I did see, this woman has so many red flags.
Yes, but her headlamps easily make up for those flags. :cool:
 

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i'm more curious about who that fuc|< is the dumbass who is paying 6k to her?

please never be this guy
There are many men who would gladly sign up to be that guy. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, but her headlamps easily make up for those flags. :cool:
She has good breasts. Her breasts don't make up for her being a single mom or having a bad financial situation.
 

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She has good breasts. Her breasts don't make up for her being a single mom or having a bad financial situation.
Sure they do - at least for some quite thirsty men.
 
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