TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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What plans, aims, objectives and progression will you achieve in 2017?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The thread is a little premature. I have hardly thought about my own really. A new job is definitely on the cards though.I am surprised I see no one having goals.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How did one per-say "expand the mind" at these festivals?after a very poor 2015 , 2016 has been pretty good for me especially regarding work and life experiences I’ve hit goals I was desperate too
2 promotions and I left a toxic office/ organisation I hated, In the process I also cut a 300 mile a week commute down to just under 100
ive also attended 5 massive edm festivals across Europe which has helped to broaden my mind
Unfortunately my personal finances are still dire, and I’m still stuck at home living with my parents which is a pain in the A$$ and something I’m hoping to change in 2017
Women aren’t really too much of a bother they come and go haven’t really found one I’ve felt a real attachment to yet
I don’t struggle to approach or talk to them and to be honest I only make an effort with chicks I’m really attracted too now
I just leave all the other plates chase me now
i Have one hell of a business idea I also want to explore in 2017 that could make millions
but its going to take a lot of work and commitment and finding the right people to help me this will probably be a project that will spill over into 2018 and 2019
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why don't you just dump this b!tch today?I think that my relationship will end soon. I will continue to lift and work on me. I also am remodeling a house for me. I want to have it finished by june. After the relationship ends I'll concentrate on my goals and forgo women for a while.
Why don't you just dump this b!tch today?
Good God.. do you value your own time?[/QUOTE
I don't need to justify my actions to someone I have never met on the internet. It's my choice to follow this to the end.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.