TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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What plans, aims, objectives and progression will you achieve in 2017?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The thread is a little premature. I have hardly thought about my own really. A new job is definitely on the cards though.I am surprised I see no one having goals.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How did one per-say "expand the mind" at these festivals?after a very poor 2015 , 2016 has been pretty good for me especially regarding work and life experiences I’ve hit goals I was desperate too
2 promotions and I left a toxic office/ organisation I hated, In the process I also cut a 300 mile a week commute down to just under 100
ive also attended 5 massive edm festivals across Europe which has helped to broaden my mind
Unfortunately my personal finances are still dire, and I’m still stuck at home living with my parents which is a pain in the A$$ and something I’m hoping to change in 2017
Women aren’t really too much of a bother they come and go haven’t really found one I’ve felt a real attachment to yet
I don’t struggle to approach or talk to them and to be honest I only make an effort with chicks I’m really attracted too now
I just leave all the other plates chase me now
i Have one hell of a business idea I also want to explore in 2017 that could make millions
but its going to take a lot of work and commitment and finding the right people to help me this will probably be a project that will spill over into 2018 and 2019
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why don't you just dump this b!tch today?I think that my relationship will end soon. I will continue to lift and work on me. I also am remodeling a house for me. I want to have it finished by june. After the relationship ends I'll concentrate on my goals and forgo women for a while.
Why don't you just dump this b!tch today?
Good God.. do you value your own time?[/QUOTE
I don't need to justify my actions to someone I have never met on the internet. It's my choice to follow this to the end.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.