TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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What plans, aims, objectives and progression will you achieve in 2017?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The thread is a little premature. I have hardly thought about my own really. A new job is definitely on the cards though.I am surprised I see no one having goals.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How did one per-say "expand the mind" at these festivals?after a very poor 2015 , 2016 has been pretty good for me especially regarding work and life experiences I’ve hit goals I was desperate too
2 promotions and I left a toxic office/ organisation I hated, In the process I also cut a 300 mile a week commute down to just under 100
ive also attended 5 massive edm festivals across Europe which has helped to broaden my mind
Unfortunately my personal finances are still dire, and I’m still stuck at home living with my parents which is a pain in the A$$ and something I’m hoping to change in 2017
Women aren’t really too much of a bother they come and go haven’t really found one I’ve felt a real attachment to yet
I don’t struggle to approach or talk to them and to be honest I only make an effort with chicks I’m really attracted too now
I just leave all the other plates chase me now
i Have one hell of a business idea I also want to explore in 2017 that could make millions
but its going to take a lot of work and commitment and finding the right people to help me this will probably be a project that will spill over into 2018 and 2019
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why don't you just dump this b!tch today?I think that my relationship will end soon. I will continue to lift and work on me. I also am remodeling a house for me. I want to have it finished by june. After the relationship ends I'll concentrate on my goals and forgo women for a while.
Why don't you just dump this b!tch today?
Good God.. do you value your own time?[/QUOTE
I don't need to justify my actions to someone I have never met on the internet. It's my choice to follow this to the end.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.