"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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2014 - Raise the Bar ***Lifting Log***

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Oh yeah. Tore calluses off on those top end reps :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nice work on the PR's!
 

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Right elbow started to ache yesterday, I thought it would be fine today, but apparently not. Really started to hurt after a few sets on the bench and I had to cut my session short to go and ice it up.

There's always something ..... :-(
 

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mix it up and ploughed through frontsquats

bar for a few
60kg x 12
80kg x 8
90kg x 6
110kg x 4
120kg x 1


couple of backsquats and some calves and im away
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sup fellas. Still about, just having a week taking it 'easy' kinda..... Well doing legs only.

And some bench

A few deadlifts...

Heavy rows.

Super heavy shrugs.

5x5 on 235 lb on the bench.

Couple of pull ups.


Then stopped cos of my elbow causing grief.


Ok, so that doesn't really look like I was taking it easy.... But thinking about resting is kinda the same as doing the damn thing ... Right guys?


...... Guys?

Started foam rolling. That shiit HURTS!!!!
 

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Yup backsquats done.frontsquat warmup
100 X 5
120 X 3
130 x 2
140 x 1 failed 2nd after max effort push :up:
130 x 1
130 x 1
100 x 5
100 x 5

Then calves and off to work.


I'm doing shorter leg workout s for a few weeks so I can hit them again in a couple of days. Fkkin elbow messing up my gainzzzz.
 

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Sorry to hear about the elbow, good to see your still getting to the gym though!
 

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How You Feel is a Lie

That phrase is the Broz mantra. You simply can't listen to your body because it's lying to you. Broz can cite countless examples of athletes setting PR's on days they didn't even want to train, as well as days where the athlete felt like a million bucks but didn't fare so well in the gym.

Fact is, when I visited Broz he explained that the previous week his wrist was so sore that he could barely warm up with the bar during split jerks, but he pushed through it, eventually felt warmed up, and ended up jerking 405 lbs. The following day his wrist pain had vanished.

He describes this phenomenon as "floating pain" – your body has to hurt somewhere. It will simply migrate from one place to the next while you sleep, and when you awaken you'll discover where it landed.
this - right here.



cheers for the article stiggy - I read a lot of these testosterone nation ones too :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No problem dude...it's funny I was reading this at the end of a class right before I went to go lift, and was just chomping at the bit to go move some weight
 

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fvckin elbow

close bench - decline
did 4 or 5 sets of -
100kg x 6

elbow gave out after about 2 sets, I pushed through and did what I could
klokov press
20kg x 12
40kg x 12
40kg x 10


cant remember the rest, wasn't impressive.
 

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Frontsquat Session

knee hurt like mad last night, but luckily it was ok when I woke.
Quads still aching from backsquats 2 days ago, I went in anyway.

bar x 12
60kg x 12
80kg x 10
100kg x 6 - *****REP PR*****
120kg x 2 - almost got stuck on the second, but grinded through that sticking point.
125kg x 1 - love that I can still hit that PR - will try to beat it in a couple of days :)

as a session, it was good - definite strength gains even if no pr got broken, getting these heavier ones all in is an achievement in itself , especially with DOMS.
 

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Bench, inclined db press and fly.

Elbow is still holding a problem for me.
 

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Squatsss

60 x 12
90 x 8
120 x 5
140 x 2
145 x 1
120 x 5
120 x 5

Den calves


I could honestly have done another set on 120kg but I'm doing frontsquats in 2 days and I wanted to be as fresh as possible.

Quads still hurt just above knees.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Legs felt mostly fresh still, so without delay, i frontsquatted.

50kg x 12
90kg x 12
130kg x 1****PR****
Fuggit, was so easy and I didn't even stall add more weight!!!!!
135kg x 1****DOUBLE DIP PR*****

Stalled a bit, but as soon as my spotter touched me I growled at him and got that Shiit up.

On my way to catching the stig!

Some shoulders and some Heavy leg press did me to finish.

Feels sooo good
 

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Congrats on the PR's! For the elbow and knee pain, getting some wraps or sleeves could help, I see quite a few powerlifers wear em, just a thought
 

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I wrap my knees, just mad doms lately from legs every day. I think the elbow is tendonitis, so rest and anti inflammatories.
 

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ok, after a few lighter training sessions I came back through for DEADLIFTS.

its been a while, but I wanted to see what the craic was.

Missed breakfast and really missed out on calorie requirements yesterday - bad day, bad news and all that, so therapy time.

70kg x 12
120kg x 12
170kg x 6
190kg x 3
200kg x 2
210kg x 1
was gonna go for 220, but wasn't feeling it after 210, and I didn't need to add a missed max to my list of woes
so dropped to
170kg x 3 - double overhand grip
30second rest
170kg x 6 - mixed grip
150kg x 10

a few pullups and stretches and off outta there.

elbow was fine and I hit a decent weight for having not eaten in a while (like 14 hours)

:D

feel better now
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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