“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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2009-2014 era SoSuave'rs?

Crissco

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Anyone from 2009-2014 era SoSuave'rs still on here(or older)? Im hardly on this forum anymore, but would love to see some old faces that are still around.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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I'm still here, I also signed up in 2009.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yep. Crissco has survived the plandemic.
 

corrector

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Been here as Luke Skywalker between 2006-2009, then as corrector since 2009. Took a few breaks posting in 2012-2016 and had most romantic experiences (2012-2014). Ironically one of the threads made by Luke Skywaker intended to find a gf before December 12, 2012. As a twist of fate that was actually fulfilled even though the world did not end that year.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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speed dawg

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2005 representin' here. Just turned 40. Was in my mid-20s and striking out left and right when I found this place. The last 15-16 years have been a total transformation from my previous 25 p*ssy-repelling years on this Earth.

What is funny is that with all the 'changes' these guys talk about (OLD, all these apps, social media, etc.), the game is still the exact same. Doc Love's advice, from 20 years ago, still rings true.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is funny is that with all the 'changes' these guys talk about (OLD, all these apps, social media, etc.), the game is still the exact same. Doc Love's advice, from 20 years ago, still rings true.
Except for when he would talk about certain technologies, like home phones.
 

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Except for when he would talk about certain technologies, like home phones.
Heh. I still remember all the old threads about how you should never text a girl, and only call her on the phone.
 

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Heh. I still remember all the old threads about how you should never text a girl, and only call her on the phone.
I read Doc Love articles when I was in college in the early 2000s. Texting wasn't really a thing back then. There were home phones and cell phones but the cell phones were used primarily for on the go phone calls. Doc was emphasizing home phones then. I didn't remember texting getting big until 2005 or 2006. The first iPhone hit the market in 2007. Before the iPhone, it was possible to date without using text messaging. After the release of the iPhone and the major popularity of the Blackberry (from 2007-09, the Blackberry was bigger), doing the early stages of dating without texting became nearly impossible.
 

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I read Doc Love articles when I was in college in the early 2000s. Texting wasn't really a thing back then. There were home phones and cell phones but the cell phones were used primarily for on the go phone calls. Doc was emphasizing home phones then. I didn't remember texting getting big until 2005 or 2006. The first iPhone hit the market in 2007. Before the iPhone, it was possible to date without using text messaging. After the release of the iPhone and the major popularity of the Blackberry (from 2007-09, the Blackberry was bigger), doing the early stages of dating without texting became nearly impossible.
The basics are still the same, whether it's a home phone or a raise to voice text or whatever. You still have to think. His point was to call the girl when they would likely be at home and not focused on other stuff. You want her full attention. No doubt that it's gotten tougher nowadays to do that, since most are buried in their phone all day anyway.
 

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Good luck calling a girl you didnt bang yet and expect her to pick up and give you her full attention in 2021...even more to schedule a date 3 days in advance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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