"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2007 New Year Resolutions

TheMainMan

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Mine-

1) Gain a stone in weight.

2) Clear my Debt.

3) Chat to one new girl a day.

3) Travel to 3 new countries.

4) Learn Spanish and Hungarian.

5) Do a charity mountain climb & raise £2k for them.

6) Complete my MSc.

7) Get a mortgage on my off-plan property.


Think writing them down creates more commitement to get them done.

What are everyone elses?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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1) stop watching porn (as much)
2) stop picking up hitchhikers (at all)
3) make as much money as i can (and put more toward paying off my house)
4) Spend some time traveling (i plan on taking a vacation for the first time in 7 years)
6) Spend more time at the gym
5) continue going down the road of personal imporvement


Other then that, i don't expect anything else to change.....

maybe you can bump this 3-4 months down the road and see how we are doing....
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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1. Some smoking so damn much
2. Go to a strip club (since ima be 18 in 10 days)
3. Start driving
4. I'll get back to this later
 

MrS

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Train hard!
Get an A in my Maths, B in Computing.
Fight when I'm in top shape.
Get laid, natch.
Hmm, that's it really!
 

PRMoon

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1) Get healtier
2) Work on relationships
3) Spend more time studing for personal gain (maybe learn a new language)

That's pretty much it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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