"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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2007 New Year Resolutions

TheMainMan

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Mine-

1) Gain a stone in weight.

2) Clear my Debt.

3) Chat to one new girl a day.

3) Travel to 3 new countries.

4) Learn Spanish and Hungarian.

5) Do a charity mountain climb & raise £2k for them.

6) Complete my MSc.

7) Get a mortgage on my off-plan property.


Think writing them down creates more commitement to get them done.

What are everyone elses?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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spider_007

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1) stop watching porn (as much)
2) stop picking up hitchhikers (at all)
3) make as much money as i can (and put more toward paying off my house)
4) Spend some time traveling (i plan on taking a vacation for the first time in 7 years)
6) Spend more time at the gym
5) continue going down the road of personal imporvement


Other then that, i don't expect anything else to change.....

maybe you can bump this 3-4 months down the road and see how we are doing....
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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1. Some smoking so damn much
2. Go to a strip club (since ima be 18 in 10 days)
3. Start driving
4. I'll get back to this later
 

MrS

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Train hard!
Get an A in my Maths, B in Computing.
Fight when I'm in top shape.
Get laid, natch.
Hmm, that's it really!
 

PRMoon

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1) Get healtier
2) Work on relationships
3) Spend more time studing for personal gain (maybe learn a new language)

That's pretty much it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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