"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2007 New Year Resolutions

TheMainMan

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Mine-

1) Gain a stone in weight.

2) Clear my Debt.

3) Chat to one new girl a day.

3) Travel to 3 new countries.

4) Learn Spanish and Hungarian.

5) Do a charity mountain climb & raise £2k for them.

6) Complete my MSc.

7) Get a mortgage on my off-plan property.


Think writing them down creates more commitement to get them done.

What are everyone elses?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spider_007

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1) stop watching porn (as much)
2) stop picking up hitchhikers (at all)
3) make as much money as i can (and put more toward paying off my house)
4) Spend some time traveling (i plan on taking a vacation for the first time in 7 years)
6) Spend more time at the gym
5) continue going down the road of personal imporvement


Other then that, i don't expect anything else to change.....

maybe you can bump this 3-4 months down the road and see how we are doing....
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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1. Some smoking so damn much
2. Go to a strip club (since ima be 18 in 10 days)
3. Start driving
4. I'll get back to this later
 

MrS

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Train hard!
Get an A in my Maths, B in Computing.
Fight when I'm in top shape.
Get laid, natch.
Hmm, that's it really!
 

PRMoon

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1) Get healtier
2) Work on relationships
3) Spend more time studing for personal gain (maybe learn a new language)

That's pretty much it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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