"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2007 New Year Resolutions

TheMainMan

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Mine-

1) Gain a stone in weight.

2) Clear my Debt.

3) Chat to one new girl a day.

3) Travel to 3 new countries.

4) Learn Spanish and Hungarian.

5) Do a charity mountain climb & raise £2k for them.

6) Complete my MSc.

7) Get a mortgage on my off-plan property.


Think writing them down creates more commitement to get them done.

What are everyone elses?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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spider_007

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1) stop watching porn (as much)
2) stop picking up hitchhikers (at all)
3) make as much money as i can (and put more toward paying off my house)
4) Spend some time traveling (i plan on taking a vacation for the first time in 7 years)
6) Spend more time at the gym
5) continue going down the road of personal imporvement


Other then that, i don't expect anything else to change.....

maybe you can bump this 3-4 months down the road and see how we are doing....
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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1. Some smoking so damn much
2. Go to a strip club (since ima be 18 in 10 days)
3. Start driving
4. I'll get back to this later
 

MrS

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Train hard!
Get an A in my Maths, B in Computing.
Fight when I'm in top shape.
Get laid, natch.
Hmm, that's it really!
 

PRMoon

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1) Get healtier
2) Work on relationships
3) Spend more time studing for personal gain (maybe learn a new language)

That's pretty much it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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