"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2 Questions I always lose with.

Konada

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're on the right track. Here's what I've used:

1. Depends on what I find.

2. I'm a virgin. <---Only works if you obviously aren't. Girls eat that **** up, and it gives you a point of discussion/teasing you can keep going up until the point you get them into bed

EDIT--just reread your 2nd question (missed the virgin part). Can't go wrong with Bible_Belt's answer vvv
 
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The key to handling a serious question is to brush it off with a non-serious answer. For #2, "I don't kiss and tell" is a golden phrase that will get you far. Women want to wonder about your past relationships, but they really don't want to know the details.
 

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thatfeel

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Yep. Case closed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?
I don't know bro. If I was interviewing an employee and they asked me "what are you looking for?" I would respond: "I'm looking for someone who can do this, do that, do this and that, etc, etc." When you say "go with the flow, no expectations, etc" it's like you are in lala land.

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
Just say "a few" and move on to something else.
 

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For the second question I LOVE IT when I get it.

" I honestly don't know , never kept count "

Virgin women DON'T want virgin men , most women prefer an experienced guy - use this to your advantage.
 
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