"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2 Questions I always lose with.

Konada

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're on the right track. Here's what I've used:

1. Depends on what I find.

2. I'm a virgin. <---Only works if you obviously aren't. Girls eat that **** up, and it gives you a point of discussion/teasing you can keep going up until the point you get them into bed

EDIT--just reread your 2nd question (missed the virgin part). Can't go wrong with Bible_Belt's answer vvv
 
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The key to handling a serious question is to brush it off with a non-serious answer. For #2, "I don't kiss and tell" is a golden phrase that will get you far. Women want to wonder about your past relationships, but they really don't want to know the details.
 

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thatfeel

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Yep. Case closed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1. What are you looking for?
"Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens."
Room for improvement?
I don't know bro. If I was interviewing an employee and they asked me "what are you looking for?" I would respond: "I'm looking for someone who can do this, do that, do this and that, etc, etc." When you say "go with the flow, no expectations, etc" it's like you are in lala land.

2. How many relationships have you had?
I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
Just say "a few" and move on to something else.
 

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For the second question I LOVE IT when I get it.

" I honestly don't know , never kept count "

Virgin women DON'T want virgin men , most women prefer an experienced guy - use this to your advantage.
 
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